Let's have Me time

I was attending a training some years back, we were  given a task in a training, to spend a day all alone doing  anything you want travelling anywhere you want without mobile.
Many participants did it,they actually  left home early morning  with some cash to travel without cellphones. They took the bus, train they wished and travelled  to some new place they wanted to. They explored new places, new people, new food and most importantly new themselves. They never got ample of self time. There is nothing that could make us turn back and see where we started and where we stand. 
We are so much in this world of gadgets and internet  that we feel uneasy without them. We are so engulfed by this inventions of android and internet  that it has almost become our breath.
Today during this lockdown internet  and gadgets have become more than breath for humankind.
While I sit and relax, fed up with web series, facebook,emails I see my daughter playing with her toys and husband working on his laptop  referring some law books,i wonder isn't it a blessing  that we are together at our own house, at our comfort in such period of medical emergency.
While we are forced to have self time, can't imagine what people will do if the internet, mobiles, other applications do not work for a day .
We have different  world altogether  within this small gadget along with  twitter facebook, web series, YouTube,we have forgotten  that we exist  and will exist beyond  all this. This  all so called are tools of entertainment and were invented to make our life's hassle-free,but it has almost become our life today without all this our life doesn't exist. 
We have all possible  or substitute options like instead of reading books at actual we have e-books, instead of writing letters we mail, instead of writing we type. 
This time is to hold back and think. Write instead of typing to feel the thoughts when you hold the pen as your hand moves along to pen down your thoughts. Don't you remember  the fragrance  of new books in the beginning of the academic year.Dont you feel empowered  when you actually hold the book in your hand. 
What are we up-to, everybody around is busy in tiktok videos, observing YouTube videos, sharing information  in watts app without ensuring if it's the right one. 
Sit back relax,switch off  your gadgets phones, emails, televisions,laptop and just be. You can actually feel your breath and realise you are alive. Sit with your parents, your siblings, your kids, your partner.
The mother you remember  is older than you think she has got  wrinkles on her skin, but the spark in her eyes when she looks at you is still the same. Look into your partners eyes isn't it long that you both actually  sat together and spoke your heart out. Sit with your siblings  and see all childhood memories flashing in front of your  eyes. Play with your kids and see how smart the generation  has become, share your school stories, success stories with them.
Discover  yourself try your luck with cooking, drawing, reading. Encourage  each other. Motivate  if any of your family members feel low. It's crucial  time and we need each other than anything else. 

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