Ek smile de… thodi hass jara......

Smile a beautiful expression. The best curve of your body. And believe me it is contagious. It brings that spark to those plain eyes. Every individual today is struggling trying to find meaning out of life. We all have become so busy, so engrossed in our lives that we actually have forgot to live it.

In this rat race we our self have forgotten to smile, enjoy life, so giving that smile to some else is out of question, isn’t it?

There is book named “Who will cry when you die” Apart from what is inside the book, what do you the think title says? 

Think what will people talk about you when you are not around? GUESS?

What you want people to say about you is in your hands, you can do it by the way you want people to talk about you. Like if you wish people should say he/she was a good human being, very kind and lovely person, u need to be one.

If you want one to say you have lovely smile, you need to give that smile to people around. Today when all are dealing with social distancing issue, believe me people are treating each other so badly. Even I see people around me who hesitate to smile at each other.

People are closing doors on each other’s face. Social distancing has converted to emotional distancing. It’s ok not to touch each other as need of an hour, but treat each other as human.

I remember in 2020 due to pandemic how northeast girl was treated by a man at a mall when he literally spit at her. How could one?

Despite all the hurry in our life we can stop for a minute to make life beautiful and world a lovely place to stay, leaving a mark behind where ever you go. Here wherever means any place like clinic, market, park, school, and workplace. Help the needy, we are lucky enough to be one who can help than the one who needs help.

Sometimes our little gestures make a lot of difference, brings smile on some ones face. A small deed of random kindness can do wonders. Giving a tip at big restaurants is a style, or say a gesture that makes increases your status. Why not give some extra money to those who delivered milk, grocery, eggs and essentials to us during pandemic. While we were in lockdown they doctor, staff, sweepers helped us in recommendable way, give it a thought.

Some simple ideas can be complimenting someone. Complementing may make the person happy and make him feel more confident. A small help offered by you to unknown person will go long way. You may find many thieves in public places but you never know who is the real needy person?

We have a sunday market near my house, where we often go for veggies and some shopping. One day I lost my husband wallet to a thief. I was extremely low and cried my heart out. I was very low as I lost all his cards, and some heavy cash. I was feeling so bad that couldn’t forgive myself for that negligence.

To my surprise my husband explained me “You never know the person must be needy and may be money was needed in hospital or some good deed” I felt so amused at his way of thinking.

To our surprise he got call from unknown person wherein we got his cards and wallet back with no money. Thief had thrown it at some railway station. So believe in “Achay logon ksaath hamesha acha hota hain”

I had lost originals to a thief while I was travelling to office in a train, but I didn't get it back. Bad meee !!

Always stay positive, be kind have empathy. Universe is like a mirror, it reflects back whatever you give. So give out positivity, give good vibes and so will you get.

We say what you sow shall you reap”

Humans can go on and on talking about themselves, try a give an ear to someone who needs it. Offer advice wherever needed. Maybe we will have less suicidal news, Fewer thefts, less bad energy.

Do not hold yourself back if you wish to help someone. You will not lose by doing something good but will lose if you hold back.

Simple activity of removing the stone from midst of road may save accidents. What say?

Remember smile is key that fits in every heart. You cannot change the world by smiling but yes if you even smile at one person making a difference then go ahead and bless that one soul. Let your radiance flow wherever you go.