After working as Human resource specialist for 17 years in corporate,I am more inclined to look at every humanbeing around as a candidate,with same perspective. We are taught about human behaviour, body language, how to analyze based on the persons behaviour, answers or reactions.
We interview people and based their answers reactions and observations we recruit them. But when it comes to relationships in our lives how do we deal with them do we have these standards.
We do not have this option for any of the relation other than marriage and friends. We have choice but no standards.It just clicks. I also had big list like any other girl for marriage of course , but finally I slowed down and understood the meaning of real relationship.
No relationship can be perfect, relationships are about imperfect people coming together to live perfect life. We all are like jigsaw puzzles, we fit into each other to form a nice picture. Our palms have places between our fingers for some else to hold it.
Imagine about any relationship may be your parents, siblings, friends, wife, husband and think about what should be the contribution of two people to have successfull relationship,both will have to contribute to make it 100%.
How much should each person contribute?should their share be 50%?at actual it my go less than 50%?
Dont we compare with our friends. You must be having friends who never call back.At some moment you will also think before you call them if she/he doesn't why should I? What percentage are you giving to this relation ?? Less than what your friend gave. When we say we are giving 50% the fact is you are holding back other 50%.
Dont we compare with our friends. You must be having friends who never call back.At some moment you will also think before you call them if she/he doesn't why should I? What percentage are you giving to this relation ?? Less than what your friend gave. When we say we are giving 50% the fact is you are holding back other 50%.
Guys at some point both sides will go so bad that the relationship is almost on artificial breathing - ventilator.
Both the partners in any relationship may be friends, siblings, cousins, betterhalf, all should give their 100%, isn't it?? Relationships needs effort, adjustments, forgiveness,acceptance.It's based on some interest,an emotional connect.
We are in lockdwon period,are we giving that 100% to our relations.Are we doing needful to nurture our relation.what is your role in keeping the particular relation alive.In any relationship there has to be giving, sharing, caring, concern all the time and not only on special occasions like B-Days or festivals. Relationship blossoms when you give your 100% all the time. Specially when your partner is low because of what ever reason. You need to take step towards your partner, your friend, to make them comfortable,help them,serve them,stand by their side. Let's try and do the famous Shahrukh Khan step keep your arms open and just give a hug.
In case you have some issues with friends family partner, think why are you together. This why will keep you connected. Always discuss, communicate, keep clarity of thoughts at equal level mentally. This WHY will keep you together, will hold your relation.
In any relationship there is going to be comparison about earnings, education, needs you just need to bring it at one level. If wife doesnt earn bring her at your level as she manages house,kids,family all single handed. She is contributing in a differnt way by her work, her care. As a parent discuss your child's dreams their further plans aspirations. Contribute together towards full filling it. Show concerns if they come across failures rather than blaming for wrong decision.
Your friend can be like your sister,your brother can be your friend, your mother can be your sister or a friend, your husband can be your buddy, your daughter can be your guru,yes sometimes kids simply teach you the hardest things of life. do not limit any of your relation in any bounded word, explore it, let it take its shape, let it have the interchangable roles.
Celebrate your relations, give them 100% no matter what. Be the part of beautiful picture formed by the jigsaw puzzle.
Create a aura around every relation,let everyone admire your relation,take it to next step where there would be only understanding,care,love, and concern.
Your friend can be like your sister,your brother can be your friend, your mother can be your sister or a friend, your husband can be your buddy, your daughter can be your guru,yes sometimes kids simply teach you the hardest things of life. do not limit any of your relation in any bounded word, explore it, let it take its shape, let it have the interchangable roles.
Celebrate your relations, give them 100% no matter what. Be the part of beautiful picture formed by the jigsaw puzzle.
Create a aura around every relation,let everyone admire your relation,take it to next step where there would be only understanding,care,love, and concern.
2 comments:
Very true
Indeed
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